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One of the most difficult things to witness is your best friend going through a divorce. You can see the pain and suffering a friend of yours is going through. Perhaps your friend is very angry and bitter and that can put a strain on the relationship.
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If your best friend shows no interest in getting together like you use to do in the past don't panic, they probably just need some time by themselves. What you should do is maintain contact and communication. Don't push it though. Invite them out even if they continue to refuse. Show them you are interested by dropping a quick email or phone call just to see how they are doing. When you talk to them Marc-Edouard Vlasic Canada Jersey , try not to dwell on the divorce or separation but on other positive things that is happening in their lives.
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